This situation involved a respected law firm in Phoenix, Arizona. There was conflict in the family and business. We helped them keep the family together.
The founder and senior attorney had two daughters and a dedicated associate attorney. The founder (senior attorney) wanted to plan for the future of the law firm. The two daughters wanted to work as little as possible. The non-family attorney was devoted to the law firm. However, because he was not “blood related,” he was never going to be part of the family.
The law firm had an annual revenue of $1.8 MM. This would normally be really good for a two-person law firm. But there were four lawyers.
The family members working in the business consisted of Father (Senior Attorney), two daughters (Partner Attorneys), and a Non-Family Member (Partner Attorney).
Father wanted to the plan future of law firm. The daughters and non-family attorney were at odds over division of expenses and allocation of new cases. The two daughters rarely if ever spoke with each other at work. The mother of the two daughters (the wife of the senior attorney) seemed to have a favorite daughter and was putting pressure on the senior attorney to work well past his retirement age.
We assessed the situation and met with all relevant parties and selected employees.
We also conducted multiple meetings to resolve the communications and conflict issues.
The relationship issues between the two daughters and non-family attorney were not resolvable. In order to keep the family together, one daughter and the non-family attorney left the law firm. (One sister started her own law firm, and can now enjoy life without pressure of having to participate in the family business.)
Family harmony was improved once the two daughters were no longer in business together.
The business partners split up because there was no common commitment to the business’ long-term success. At the end of the day, if there was a choice between business success and family favoritism, the business always lost.
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Michael Zolno has an MBA and MA in research psychology and almost 40 years’ experience as a consultant. He is also a co-founder of How to Create a Legacy, LLC.